The man makes himself wait at the appointed time
When people are going on a date, they have to be punctual. In life, there are all sorts of things (for example, problems with transport). It is impossible to foresee all the circumstances. Therefore, a slight fall is acceptable.
But if a man is late for a date for more than 10 minutes, he should at least call, explain himself, reschedule the meeting. If this does not happen, feel free to enter the phone number in the blacklist.
Being late is disrespectful. This applies to both girls and men. But it so happened that the fair sex is forgiven for such small weaknesses. But the guys are not allowed to keep waiting for themselves. A man who does not value your time, makes you wait, will never change and will continue to treat you disdainfully. Let it be better to refer you to capricious persons, than to suffer self-esteem and mood.
Meeting with the "economical" cavalier
Some men are afraid that a woman will, so to speak, divorce them for a trip to a cafe. For this reason, they refuse to meet indoors. Some men adhere to the position of not inviting for a first date in a cafe. Thus, they check the interest of the interlocutor in themselves, and not in a free lunch in a cafe.
In some cases, there are also excesses. For example, some guys manage to invite a girl to the park in the rain and stormy wind or in -20°C. It is clear that such a date should not take place.
Maybe there are girls who, for the sake of a snack in a cafe, are ready to go on dates with men they are not interested in. But if the cavalier is "hard" to pay for such a pastime, you should think about whether you need such a "copy".
A date in a carelessly chosen place
A date should take place in a place where both will be comfortable, where you can have a good time. If, for example, you are invited to meet in some fast-food eatery, you should not agree to such a date.
Even if you love to eat hamburgers or shawarma, there are much more comfortable places with affordable prices where you can enjoy these same dishes. But at the same time, there will not be a noisy crowd of teenagers. If he does not care about these moments, and he is ready to hold a date in such a place (by the way, why there, and not in the student cafeteria, what is too small), it is worth thinking hard about continuing to meet this boyfriend.
The boyfriend is not very interested in the meeting
There are cavaliers with the position "I miss you, come". At the same time, the man himself does not want to go anywhere, organize anything, does not show interest in any way. It is you who should come to his neighborhood and do the most he can, hang out with you in a cafe near the house, which you do not need to go to. And he'll split the bill in half.
Take a couple of public transport stops to a coffee shop with delicious Hong Kong waffles? Come on, there's a fast food place right next to the house in the mall. It's okay that you're two hours away from him in one direction to go, come on. Go to the recreation center? Well, if you arrange and arrange it yourself. And he will still grumble that you are dragging him somewhere unclear.
If the gentleman does not want to make a minimum of effort to make the date take place, it is better not to be such a meeting. After all, most likely, such a man is not interested in you at all. If you leave him alone and just don't call, text, or drag him out, there probably won't be any dates at all.
A date with the "wrong" man
You meet a man who asks you out on a date. Friends say that he is a handsome man, with whom you definitely need to see him to continue dating.
But you are not very hooked on it. You can't even figure out what exactly is wrong with it. Just a new friend you do not like and that's it. For any reason. The height is not such, the jacket is not beautiful, the ears are protruding. No matter. And this is already an excuse not to go on a date.
When you go on a date with an unfamiliar man, be prudent, have ways of escape. Be mentally and financially ready to pay for yourself (and sometimes for both). It's great if the man turns out to be decent. If not, at least you can walk away from such a date with your head held high.